jessicaisbrown asked:
I need advice. :/ my ex and I broke up a month ago.. after we broke up, we still continued to talk everyday. I think both of us weren't able to get used to the fact that the daily conversations would soon fade away. the thing is.. I just want to talk to him again. We were good friends before we got together.. and I feel like I lost a good friend as well. I miss him. I'm unsure if I'm over him because he crosses my mind so many times.. I just want to know how he is. If he's in pain as much as me.

I’m so sorry to hear that, Hun! But things will get better! I promise you! I was in a relationship for 7 years. We broke up back in November. I had someone to talk to every day and every night. No matter what, we’d always talk to each other before we went to sleep. I can imagine how you’re feeling. It’s been almost 4 months since our break up and he’ll cross my mind once in a while but to be honest I try to avoid myself from seeing him or talking to him because all that’ll do is bring back all the memories. I chose to break up with him which was one of the hardest things I had to do but moving on and trying to keep the past in the past was even harder. Even after our break up he’d text me to check up on me and it was hard for me not to do the same but I had to stop myself because I didn’t want to get back into the same routine. I don’t know what your story is but it’s only been a month. You can’t forget everything in a month. But if you think that there still maybe something there then talk it out with him. Whatever you do, just don’t regret it. There had to be a reason why you two broke up. Letting go may be one of the hardest things a person can go through… but everything takes time.



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